Happy birthday, you said
bending over to kiss my cheek.
And with my fluttering heart and flaming blush
I decided that was my first kiss,
that all the others did not count.
Because I wanted my first kiss to come from you,
my heart believed it had.
Between the slats of the Venetian blinds,
I see outside the window, to frenzied frolicking
blue spruce bouncing
pine tree pirouetting
maple making waves
beneath a grey sky
dancing in time to my wind chime’s tune.
We gathered together,
grad students celebrating scholarly excellence,
and discussed philosophy, narrative,
collaboration, theory and practice.
Should such a gathering be called
an erudition of grad students?
“We all want to be able to be our full selves everywhere”
-Jenny Betz
If you can be you
and I can be me
and we can be we
without panic or worry
then it doesn’t matter
whom you love
whom I love
whether him or her,
it only matters that we
respect one another enough to see
that love is love
in whatever form it might be.
.
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I was reading today about a teen who was sent home from school because her shirt proclaimed a sexuality that the school administration was uncomfortable with. Meanwhile, at my school, we’re looking into starting a gay straight alliance group and have gender neutral washrooms. We have under 125 high school students. It’s easy to be kind and respectful so our kids don’t need to feel so desperate that they kill themselves when they realize their sexuality isn’t a choice.
You do not believe in censorship
you say
and yet you sit there and complain that
I accept work with curses. Work that is
about process, about drafting, about stretching.
I do not censor youthful voices
that may want to shout,
to try new language, new words.
We learn about audience and persona
and your child is allowed to stretch her wings
to try on new faces and expressions with me.
She is allowed to find her voice in my class room,
even if her voice
is louder than you like.