You make it
so
inside your head.
Convince yourself
you’re right
and true.
Ask for advice,
but
debate each position
deny each observation
sputter
rant
and grumble about lack of support.
If you don’t want
to hear,
don’t ask.
If you won’t consider
perspectives,
don’t request them.
If you only want approval,
just say,
“Aren’t I great!”
and don’t be surprised
by silence.
So much difficulty
is avoided
when we read the instructions.
If you don’t know what is asked
why do you try
to answer?
.
.
I’m marking exams at the moment and astonished at how often answers in no way reflect the question asked.
Strangers in the mall. Abridged.
“Excuse me?
Can I just say, you look beautiful?
You’re so vibrant and joyful!”
“Why, thank you.
I was just told at a writing conference
that I am colorful and songful.”
“Oh yes! What a perfect description! You are!
What writing conference was this?
I’ve always wanted to write!
The universe has brought you to me
to give me this message!”
“I hope you’ll join us next year,
please say hello. I’ll still look like
this, but hopefully there’ll be less of me.”
“Oh! There’s less of ME! I just lost 40 lbs,
just walking and cutting out chips.”
“Well done!
Clearly the universe brought you to me today.”
