One’s valour is in proportion to one’s fear. The man who is always entirely unafraid can never be brave. He has nothing to be brave about. One can only show real courage if one is afraid. The coward, therefore, being afraid of nearly everything, is alone capable of the highest courage .
Barbara Leonie Picard One is One, p. 134
I know a man with several brothers and sisters. He remembers being terrified as a child. He was traumatized by spankings. He remembers a lot of abuse. He is certain that he was the most beaten of all. His siblings think he was just overly melodramatic, and that he got out of real spankings because of his hysteria.
It’s interesting, because even if it’s true that he wasn’t hit as frequently or as hard as the others were, what beatings he did receive traumatized him when the allegedly more severe spankings of his siblings didn’t bother them at all.
He was more courageous because he dealt with something that was more terrifying to him.
NaNoWriMo day 14: 1710 words (Total for November: 23,291)