Our friendship can lie low
for months and years
Wading through the morass of obligations
from family and job.
Fallow fields tended on Facebook
with a like or a care emoji.
Does anyone else write letters any more?
I miss live laughter,
the belly aching kind,
making new memories.
I miss voices harmonizing until the cells
reverberate into joy.
Time doesn’t lie between us
it surrounds us
paints its creases on our skin
but within, this friendship
hasn’t aged a day.
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Napowrimo Day 28. This actually links to the prompt from yesterday which was to explore ‘an obscure sorrow’. Yesterday, my sorrow was too overt for obscurity. Lilo is an interesting concept. I have so many friends whom I only see once a year at certain writing conferences, or others that I may go years between seeing. My friends and adopted families in Finland, I don’t see for decades, but I think of them often, and when I see them, it is like we slot back into each other’s lives like no time has passed. As if I could be the neighbour next door. Some days, I wish I were. It is hard when real life means you can’t be with the people who fill your heart. I must say, I definitely appreciate how Facebook has made it easier to touch into those distance friends far more easily.
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I love your daily posts but this one is particularly wonderful!!! Thank you for sharing yourself and how odd ng out threads we can all grab onto!❤️🙏❤️
Should say holding out threads
This is an excellent description of adult friendships in a culture on the move.