and that is beginning
and that is ending
and that is continuity
and that is blessing
and that is leaving
and that is receiving
and that is you
and that is me
and that is we
and that is beginning
and that is ending
and that is continuity
and that is blessing
and that is leaving
and that is receiving
and that is you
and that is me
and that is we
No one can truly leave those who love him/her behind, no matter how fast the run. Those who are joined together, remain so.
Think of all those divorced couples, who when far apart, are still connected through experiences (for better or worse), even if they embrace new partners.
The cyclic naturre of the dance
think of all the divorced couples that would have killed each other if they hadn’t divorced
Neither here nor there- the connection remains. Learning. Experience. Bitterness. Hope.
not disagreeing – but that ’till death do we part’? guess that’s why we get buried beside one another
My father is working on that death parting stuff right now after 53 years with my mother.
He was 25 years with his first wife who left him for his business partner, and I can assure you, until she died, he still felt connected to her. (and probably afterwards, really).
Significant relationships mark us.
I pledged that ’til death us do part’ 30 years ago this week and fully intend to carry it out to its natural conclusion. I never make promises lightly and for me a vow means whatever my emotional state, picky complaints, and frustrations, I’m going to live up to my commitment for the sake of the commitment itself. It’s a matter of honour for me. We make the relationships we live by our decisions to build them up or tear them down.
Both my parents were divorced before they married each other. Mom was in a terribly abusive situation with an alcoholic. Dad’s wife had an affair (or a few!). I was lucky to choose someone who’s proven worth my vow.
true on all counts – regards