In the book, The Help, by Kathryn Stockett, Skeeter is confronted by her maid, Constantine who tells her,
“Ever morning, until you dead in the ground, you gone have to make this decision…. You gone have to ask yourself, Am I gone believe what them fools say about me today?” (Kathryn Stockett, p. 73)
Skeeter is floored by this revelation. She says,
“All my life I’d been told what to believe about politics, coloreds, being a a girl. But with Constantine’s thumb pressed in my hand, I realized I actually had a choice in what I could believe.” (Ibid. p. 74)
This is a powerful message, isn’t it? You choose the values, morals and beliefs that guide your life. Your parents may teach you theirs, but in the end, you have the right, perhaps really the obligation, to choose your own.