Today should have been a wedding anniversary. Sometimes things in our lives don’t work out as planned. It is interesting to imagine what ‘might have been’ but it offers some dangers. Every decision we make changes our course a little, but sometimes they travel us in a circle that leads back to where we’re supposed to be. It does no good to get lost in nostalgic ‘what ifs’ because that can never change what was or what is. We are where we are now, for better or worse.
However, if we look to the future and our ‘what if’ opens dreams of possibility, then it can be the fuel for wonderful explorations and adventures.
Happy ‘could have been’ anniversary. Joyous ‘this is it’ and Good luck on ‘I wonder what will be?’
Shawn L. Bird 