Family and friends
gather for funeral to
tell stories:
laughter
tears
admiration
appreciation.
I hope she knew
she touched this many.
that they’d have to
bring in extra chairs,
though she was a newcomer
to this community.
When cancer is found,
why not call everyone
to celebrate the life
while the body is there to hear?
Why not send her off for chemo
with these stories of love,
respect, and support?
Why wait to gather
when she’s not here
to receive the blessing?
.
.
.
Memorial today, packed house to celebrate Auntie Linda. I just kept wishing she’d been here to know how many lives she’d touched.
I was reminded of a send off my friend had for her husband when he was heading south for radiation, bone marrow transplant, etc. Relatives came from afar, friends packed the building. We sang, we told stories, we laughed, we sent him off with blessings for his young family, knowing in his heart how he’d inspired people. When he passed away a few months later, we gathered all again with sadder hearts, but that time together lifting him up has stayed with me as a very precious occasion to support a young family in a time of tragedy.
Shawn L. Bird 
I’m so sorry about your aunt. That’s a hard way to go. And as far as the service, perhaps she Does know. I hope so.
Me, too.
Hello Shawn.
I have always thought that there is an element of self indulgence in funerals. I do like your friend’s idea.
My mother has always said she doesn’t want a funeral, because “I won’t be there to enjoy it.” I told her funerals aren’t for the dead, they’re to comfort the living. She didn’t thing she (estate) should have to pay for it. lol That’s my mother, for ya!
Beautiful words. So sorry for your loss.
Thank you.
Deepest condolences Shawn….
Some day…some Day
Thanks, Charissa.
Letting go is always the hardest thing. I love the thoughts on sending someone off on their journey with love.
Thanks, Loyd.
I love celebrating LIFE anytime but doing it when all can be physically there? A blessing indeed… Many hugs for your heart.
Thanks, Annette.
I am with you there Shawn – we need to tell people what they mean to us while they are still alive
It is particularly difficult when people are of the “I don’t want to be a bother” variety.
This is beautiful. Yes, I agree.
Thanks.
Outstanding, and a brilliant idea. ❤
Thanks