“forgiveness is not a single act, but a matter of constant practice”
Diana Gabaldon in Drums of Autumn
Forgiveness is something that requires practice because it’s not that easy to do. There are things that get under your skin and you want to hold onto them. Little injustices. Petty irritations. Big betrayals. Some things are so slight that others don’t know why you’re holding onto them, but we’re stubborn to our own detriment, much of the time. I’m a bit of an expert in the cutting of a nose to spite a face.
When you can do it though, even for big things, especially for the big things perhaps, it releases a freedom of spirit. Holding tight to grudges ties a knot in your spirit. Forgiveness creates the wings to set it free.